Father lifting his laughing toddler into the air outdoors

Lifting kids without wrecking your back

Everyday life

4 min read

Dr. Andre Okafor

Car seats, cribs and toddlers who go limp on purpose: how to lift the people you love without paying for it later.

Parents lift, carry and twist dozens of times a day, often while tired and in a hurry. You don’t need perfect technique every time, but a few habits add up.

Get close first

The farther a child is from your body, the heavier they feel to your back. Step in, bend your knees and bring them to your chest before you stand.

Car seats

Climb partway into the car instead of reaching from the doorway, and put the seat as close to the door as it can safely go.

Cribs and changing tables

Lower the crib mattress only when your child needs it, and keep changing tables at hip height so you’re not bending over twenty times a day.

Switch sides

  • Alternate the hip you carry on

  • Use a carrier for longer walks

  • Kneel for floor play instead of bending

New parents often come in with mid-back and wrist pain. It’s common, and it’s very treatable.

This article is general information, not medical advice or a diagnosis. Results vary from person to person. If you have sudden severe pain, weakness or numbness, call 911.

Written by

Dr. Andre Okafor

Reviewed by the Northline clinical team.

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